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I’m sorry for your loss Edward!! I have to say you never really get over losing a loved one BUT every day does get that little bit easier 🙂 I must say tho friendship and laughter helps and you will get plenty of that from us “Ole” gals here at SFUK 😀
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Sunday June 23, 2013 3:36PM Phil died.
ekrubynaffit
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Awww Ed Im so sorry about Phil, he will always be with you though, but I know that dosnt make up for the loss. You have made some amazing looking Sims, they are so lifelike! Now to pick on Donnas comment, Ole Girls Donna??? I’m only 32 not quite an Ole gal yet!!!!
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Thank you both!
Some days are better than others. It’s normal. But, life does go on.
CheekyBugga
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@Edward 5343 wrote:
Thank you both!
Some days are better than others. It’s normal. But, life does go on.
Yes Ed it does, but does help to have friends around…I joke around alot but do have a serious side if ever you want to talk My ears are open and my mouth is shut 😉
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I thank you kindly for the offer.
The biggest adjustment I have to make mentally is, I’m in this apartment alone. For 22 years, he was always around. Now he’s not. Soooooooo……….Just something I have to get used to. It isn’t easy.
CheekyBugga
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No I can imagine it isn’t easy I can’t say I know as I have not lost a partner I have been married for 27yrs BUT you will do the best you can with what you have been handed.I sense that 🙂
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My mother calls everyday to check on me. We talk a lot.
A few days after he died, I went to this one casino we went to. Sat at the exact same spot he sat at, played the same poker machine he did, and had a drink in his name. In honor and tribute to him. It was incredibly emotional. But, I got through it.
Yes, I deal with what I’ve been handed. I have to. It’s a day by day basis. And, I forgot what I was going to say……Geez!
CheekyBugga
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Ahhh your in the Alzheimers club too WELCOME to the Club , been in that one for yrs too 😀 lol Ed that was a lovely way to remember Him…You know it’s corny but they never leave you they are always in your heart and mind 🙂
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He/they are always there……
I was going through some of his things and found a shirt I’m keeping. His scent/cologne was still on it. Not too long after that, I was sitting here and that same exact scent was right in front of me. My head flew up and turned in every direction it could looking. He was nowhere to be found. I wish I could remember if I called out his name.
The other night when I was in bed, it felt like I was being poked in the shoulder. Happened a few times. One right after the other. I didn’t turn around. But, there are several different logical explanations for that. My shot nerves is the best one to explain it away. If it was him, he’ll be back.
CheekyBugga
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Ed I believe very strongly in the life after …Often my Mum has come to visit me …When I am in a bad way I talk to her and she comes to me SOOO pls Talk out loud to him as he will hear you and come to you May sound like I am crazy but it’s true it happens 🙂
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Oh. I do talk to him.
There’s this one game I play, Mass Effect 3. I was always asking questions. One day, I turned my head to ask him a question and I forgot he wasn’t there. Happened a few times. So, I just started telling him what I was doing. Then, I was in bed watching something on the tablet. YouTube. It was a few edited episodes of a game show he liked watching. I literally had the tablet in my hands to come out here to show him. I forgot. Happened a few more times. It just takes some getting used to. Odds are, it’ll happen again. I still sit here and cry sometimes. This is all so new to me. And, I will never go through it again.
CheekyBugga
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Yeah I went thru that when my Mum passed I use to call her every day and I found myself picking the phone up to do just that but had to stop myself…Give your self time to heal Ed ..you will never forget but it will get easier. You will be in my prayers tonight 🙂
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Thank you!
And, I have to leave for a bit…….But, I shall return!
ekrubynaffit
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